I had a flash of insight the other day, one that may seem a bit strange, but here it is: I am both Amebocyte and Slug, and so are you. This illumination struck me as a fundamental truth about our human condition. I have often been disturbed by how inconsistent - seemingly hypocritical- I am in my reactions to others -- fluctuating between being Mr. Humanity full of empathy and compassion for others, and being Mr. Nasty full of snap judgments, anger, snide reactions to these same others. And then it hit me: Amebocytes and Slugs. (See "Amebocytes and Slugs: The Key to Almost Everything.")
Amebocyte and Slug is more than a cute metaphor; it captures a truth about the human condition: the two phases of our existence. Sometimes we are amebocyte: solitary "I"s, swimming alone, independent, separate, apart, competitive, reactive to one another; and sometimes we are slug:"We"s, part of the whole, one with one another.
In the amebocyte state, our separateness predominates; whereas in the slug state it is our connectedness, our oneness.
There is no hypocrisy here, only two sides of human existence. For
much of our lives, we exist in the amebocyte state, swimming alone,
experiencing our separateness, our difference from others; we judge,
evaluate, compete. And then there are the rare moments of illumination
in which we experience our connectedness, our oneness with others, our
love.
Little Slugs and Big Slugs. The amebocyte/slug shift occurs in many different contexts. It may be in the family in which, at times, we experience ourselves as separate, competitive, evaluative of the others, while, at other times, we experience our oneness.
Sometimes whether we are in the amebocyte or slug state is shaped by systemic organizational conditions: Bottoms in their condition of shared vulnerability are more likely to experience themselves as a "We",as embedded in the slug; whereas Middles, in the organizational space that pulls them apart from one another, are more likely to be in the amebocyte state, experiencing themselves as a collection of independent "I"s. We observe this phenomenon regularly in the Organization Workshop when we ask organizational groups to describe their peer relationships. Bottom groups, the front-line workers, describe themselves as "WE"s, using such words and phrases as "teamwork," "creative," "supportive," "we could run the place if only THEY (Middles and Tops) got out of our way." Middles, by contrast, see themselves as a collection of independent "I"s, no group, no collective power among them, separate from, and often competitive with one another.
The amebocyte/slug shift also occurs in the larger context of nations, religions, ethnic groups. In our amebocyte state our connection to nation, religion, or ethnic group is minimal or non-existent; then something happens - a threat, challenge, insult - and we are embedded in our slug state - one with the nation, religion, or ethnic group.
All of this is old hat for me and, possibly, for you. What struck me as special the other day was that moment in which I felt embedded in the BIG SLUG, the slug that encompasses all other slugs. And, more than the personal experience, was the knowledge that our separateness from and connection to the BIG SLUG is a truth of human existence.
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