This is not about Don Imus and the disparaging comments he made regarding the Rutgers women's basketball team. It is about the post-Imus conversation, specifically the hour-long talk-in show this morning on National Public Radio. The conversation was uniformly - almost - blistering of Imus; the disagreements - and there were several - were limited to the appropriate penance to be paid and what his act said about American culture - Is this just Imus or is this all of white America? How deep-rooted is racism and what are the appropriate remedies? There was one counter-current voice; it came from a woman, obviously white, obviously nervous, likely aware of the perilous waters into which she was venturing. Her point was how much Imus' words and others equally revolting are part of rap culture, first black but eventually incorporated - co-opted - into white culture. What part does that play, she raised in the discussion? Her point was immediately dismissed - Early on rock music was also accused of poisoning the culture, so don't blame the music! And that was the end of her point. So now back to making the issue black and white - pardon - blameless victimized blacks, oppressive racist whites. There is an exercise in the Organization Workshop called Their part, your part. The point is when someone does something that hurts or offends you, the first things to do is to describe for them very clearly just what it is they said or did and the impact it had on you- your feelings, your impulse to action. That's their part. Now what's your part. Is there some way you contributed to this situation? Maybe yes, maybe no; but at least look at what your part might have been. That is still a legitimate question for the black community. Are there cultural issues in the black culture that contribute to white racism? This is not to deny the pervasiveness of racism; that's their part. Can you also work on what may be your part? It would help some of us who are willing to confront racism to know that we are all in this together.
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