Last week I happened to be passing through Manteo, a small town on Roanoke Island, North Carolina, just as the town's annual Christmas Parade was unfolding. The mistress of ceremonies knew and, with her microphone on high, chatted with each and every parading group as it passed the reviewing stand. On and on they came: the grand marshal, the mayor, the girl scouts, the firemen and rescue squad, the boy scouts, a violin-playing group, a group of little people in hand-made costumes - crepe paper, aluminum foil, the high school band, the middle school trumpet players, floats from one association after another. On some lawns there were the proudly defiant placards "Put Christ back into Christmas." This was Sarah Palin's "real America." I recognized how foreign that spectacle was to my piece of America. I live in Boston's South End. The only parade we know around here is the annual Gay Pride parade, a parade withs its own brand of unique costumes I suspect would not play well in Manteo. Still, there we have it, another piece of America. In those hours I spent in Manteo I experienced the rich diversity of America, so many different environments in which people can build lives suited to their needs, beliefs, and values. That is what creates our specialness; all of America in its rich diversity is the "real" America.The challenge for any system, whether it's a family, organization, community, or nation is to value and elaborate its differences while recognizing and valuing commonality. Difference without commonality leads to negativity, mistrust, tension, and, in the extreme, warfare. Religious wars, ethnic wars, slavery and oppression are all based in conditions of difference without commonality. While commonality without difference creates pale, dreary, and impotent systems. There is a creative dynamism to a system that has room for both Manteo and the South End.
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